Right and Wrong but who cares


I know what it’s like to believe that what I feel to be true and have someone go out of their way to blow holes in my beliefs. I also laugh at and sometimes take to heart when someone takes a tone with me over something but when I get passionate or ruffled I become the irrational one. I don’t agree with everything Trump says or does, in fact I grind my teeth and roll my eyes at much of what he says or doesn’t say. I can understand though his reactions to those who are so quick to put him on the defense because there are so many just foaming at the mouth ready to catch him on something so they can turn point the finger and say ha, I was right.

  It gets very stressful and annoying to always be right or defend or stand up for something you feel to be true. I often get caught up just like everyone else and fight to be right, mostly on stupid things that don’t really matter. I often get put on the hot plate after making a statement that I feel to be true being asked to prove the validity of my words then have my defense shot down because they feel their facts are the only truth.

   I will always speak my mind but will practice when to let go. I don’t always have to prove I’m right or get someone to validate that I actually do know a thing or two. I  know some facts about a vaired work history being exposed to all sorts of people and experiences as well as obstacles, road blocks and disappointments that other people haven’t gone through, so I would have had to pick up some knowledge along the way. Perhaps it’s possible that two opposing views can be right or even wrong.

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