Stuck
I can go anywhere in my past and dig up mistakes and misjudgements , on a collective whole we all have something we did and didn't do that we deeply regret and all our efforts now can't correct that moment in time. I know I beat myself up alot over under estimating my potential or knowing I should have said or done something to stop a situation or guard myself from something that would lead to a deeper situation, something more devastating.
I hear people all the time admitting they are not happy either at their job or relationship, sometimes both. They know deep down that they need to do something to either end the suffering and anxiety but they hope against all odds that something will miraculously happen and the grand effort of making a sacrifice will be put back on the shelf and everything will go back to being peachy keen. More often than not that doesn't happen.
It bothers me immensely when I hear someone who is intelligent and reasonable take and twist reality so they won't have to make a decision and yes I speak about myself as well. I get all flustered and bothered when I offer good advice and none of it's taken but I am really getting upset with myself because I am a master at giving advice and child accepting it. Everybody knows it's easier to give it out than to take it. In the back of my mind I'm hoping that someone can follow my words and brake the cycle. that would give me hope or visa verse if I'm able to break through that some one going through the same crap can better themselves.
I don't want to stay imprisoned by complacency or held captive but a oppressive situation and I don't want the people in my life to be there either. Yes, sometimes we have to let go of being comfortable, maybe switch up how we think or act or take a closer look at something or some one and either accept it as is or try to navigate through it with out it dragging you under. I hate having to make changes in order to survive but staying in limbo and calling it okay scares me more
I hear people all the time admitting they are not happy either at their job or relationship, sometimes both. They know deep down that they need to do something to either end the suffering and anxiety but they hope against all odds that something will miraculously happen and the grand effort of making a sacrifice will be put back on the shelf and everything will go back to being peachy keen. More often than not that doesn't happen.
It bothers me immensely when I hear someone who is intelligent and reasonable take and twist reality so they won't have to make a decision and yes I speak about myself as well. I get all flustered and bothered when I offer good advice and none of it's taken but I am really getting upset with myself because I am a master at giving advice and child accepting it. Everybody knows it's easier to give it out than to take it. In the back of my mind I'm hoping that someone can follow my words and brake the cycle. that would give me hope or visa verse if I'm able to break through that some one going through the same crap can better themselves.
I don't want to stay imprisoned by complacency or held captive but a oppressive situation and I don't want the people in my life to be there either. Yes, sometimes we have to let go of being comfortable, maybe switch up how we think or act or take a closer look at something or some one and either accept it as is or try to navigate through it with out it dragging you under. I hate having to make changes in order to survive but staying in limbo and calling it okay scares me more